Author: Zita Christian

  • A Valentine’s Day Ritual for One

    A Valentine’s Day Ritual for One

    My local gift shop, grocery store, pharmacy, and post office all sell greeting cards. Annual holidays transform the rotating racks according to the seasonal emblems – witches, turkeys, evergreen trees, hearts, and shamrocks.    For Valentine’s Day there are options for a person’s husband, wife, son, son-in-law, grandson, daughter, daughter-in-law, granddaughter, brother, sister, mother, father,…

  • How Did I Survive the Caregiving Journey? Truth, Strength, and Walter Cronkite

    How Did I Survive the Caregiving Journey? Truth, Strength, and Walter Cronkite

    I grew up listening to Walter Cronkite. He signed off each nightly newscast with “And that’s the way it is.” As a kid, I was often alarmed by the news. But I reasoned that if Walter Cronkite respected me enough to tell me the truth, surely that meant I could handle it. Yes, my reasoning…

  • A Summer Solstice Ritual Inspired by My Dying Husband

    A Summer Solstice Ritual Inspired by My Dying Husband

      My husband died in the summer of 2022. He had Alzheimer’s. We had been married for 41 years. I cared for him at home until the end. Ours was what family and friends called a fairy tale marriage. Odd as it might sound at first, his dementia journey and my experience as his caregiver…

  • Ritual: Soup to Heal the World

    Ritual: Soup to Heal the World

    All over the world, relationships are nourished with food.I created a ritual to provide virtual nourishment. My inspiration? Spiritual activist Caroline Casey who says, “Imagination lays the tracks for the reality train to follow.”    All aboard!   Parliament of the World’s Religions   Do you want to help the world? Look for hope. I…

  • Spirit Spoons: Your Magic Wands 

    Spirit Spoons: Your Magic Wands 

    Follow the Sun Did you use a spoon to stir your coffee or tea this morning? Did you feel a sense of power?    From at least the 1700s, ancient cultures in Europe, and I suspect elsewhere, too, considered clockwise movement to be the movement of the sun. Since the sun was seen as the…

  • Bowls of Abundance: A Spiritual Ritual for a Moon Circle

    Bowls of Abundance: A Spiritual Ritual for a Moon Circle

    For many years, I led a women’s moon circle in my home. Our purpose was to:  Celebrate the seasons the way our ancestors did Align our spirits with the cycles of nature  Honor the Divine Feminine    We met once a month on or near the full moon. There were four of us. We came…